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When Fire Threatens, Make Rain

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Conflict presents an opportunity for connection. When we shift from fighting to understanding, we open a door to getting what we really want. This post explores six actionable steps to guide you from conflict to peace, including:

  • Stopping and stepping back to prevent escalation.

  • Cooling your anger by understanding its roots.

  • Watering the flower with genuine appreciation.

Discover how to turn conflict into connection and strengthen your relationships through mindful communication. Read more to learn practical tools for creating peace in your personal and professional life.

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Yes, And: Improv Comedy and Life

Yes, And: Transforming Life’s Challenges with Improv Principles
Discover how the principles of improv comedy, like "Yes, And," can help navigate life's toughest moments. From personal stories of loss and healing to embracing reality and building a brighter future, this blog explores how saying "yes" to life’s challenges opens the door to growth, connection, and peace. Learn actionable insights inspired by Bessel van der Kolk's The Body Keeps the Score and Amy Poehler’s teachings on staying open and resilient in the face of change.

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The Turtle and the Hailstorm: A common conflict story

The Turtle and the Hailstorm

Discover the dynamics of the Turtle and the Hailstorm relationship: one partner craves connection and expression, while the other seeks solitude and distance. This pattern often leads to conflict, but also offers profound opportunities for growth. Drawing from Helen LaKelly Hunt and Harville Hendrix’s work in Getting the Love You Want, this blog explores how small shifts in managing your own responses can transform your relationship. Learn how understanding your own needs and reactions creates space for deeper connection and lasting change.

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Life Lessons from a Spider: Rebuilding with Resilience

Just like a spider mends her web, we, too, can rebuild from life’s inevitable storms. Anchored by our values, experiences, and self-care, we return to the supports that strengthen us, each time weaving a little more resilience into our lives. Join me in exploring how we can adapt and thrive through the process of rebuilding.

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